An  Active  Sex  Life 

The Top Three Factors Of An Active Sex Life are:-

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Your attitude about and towards your partner goes a long way to igniting or extinguishing the flame of passion and sexual desire in you both. If you cultivate admiration, appreciation and respect for your partner, for the type of person they are and for their innate qualities and capabilities, you are literally sowing the seeds of love, attraction and passion.

This dynamic is actually a natural human condition, whatever we admire and respect we tend to feel a type of love for. It could be a sport, a car, natural phenomena, music or an iconic figure. We feel a natural inclination to want to become more involved and be more familiar with our particular passion. I'm not talking about obsession here, although there is a fine line that must always be observed in these matters, but I'm sure you get my meaning.

When you feel this kind of admiration and respect for your partner, your love and intimacy levels rise and you quite naturally want to be as close as possible with them which evokes desire and sexual stimulation.

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Putting in the effort to find opportunities to make love. Thinking about making love with your husband/wife and working that into your schedule so that you optimise any spare time you may have. It may mean eating a sandwich in you car on your way home at lunch time so you can have the best part of an hour alone together.

Also you could try going to bed earlier so you can wake up sooner and make love in the morning before work - this is a wonderful way to start your day! Or record programmes that you usually watch later in the evening and spend that time in bed with your partner and catch up on your programme when you are alone.

Even the action of looking for ways and opportunities for you two to get together in a passionate and sexual way, regardless of whether you find any, focuses your attention on this area of your lives and in itself is an important factor for ensuring an active sex life.

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Perceiving yourself as a sexually attractive person is an important key. This has a huge influence on the quality and quantity of your sex life. Whether you are male of female, seeing and feeling yourself as desirable and sexy will give you more confidence in your sexual prowess. This attitude will stimulate your sensual nature and your partner will pick up on the signals you will subconsciously be giving out.

Try it for yourself - think of your sexual self in the way that you'd like your partner to perceive you (maybe they already do!). 'Feel' their desire for you and 'hear' them tell you how sexy and attractive they find you, how much they love your body etc.

If you take only 5 minutes alone to try this out and take it seriously, I assure you that you will feel very sensually and sexually alive. Now, imagine employing this technique as part of your life in general and if both partners are 'priming' themselves this way their sex life will be a wonderful success!

What Exactly Is An Active love-Life?

What an active love-life really means is not what most people seem to think. In general it appears that a couples' love-life is thought to be active if they are having sex frequently. This description, unfortunately, falls very short of what an active sex life really is. So to clarify this point, your sex life is active if:-

- Both you and your partner think about each other sensually and sexually at some point every singly day, even if it's only for a fleeting moment.

- You often and easily include the topic of your sex life as part of your normal conversations with each other. This could be when remembering certain occasions that stand out because of their uniqueness etc. It is also important that you can comfortably compliment your partner on their sexual attentiveness and their desire for you.

- You flirt with each other as a normal part of your relationship when appropriate, just like when you were first dating but obviously now it will be more intimate and equally exciting. The ability to flirt naturally with your partner and enjoy it will greatly stimulate your sensual and sexual feelings and the possibility of making love will be ever present - you will only have to wait for an appropriate opportunity.

- You both value the quality of your sex life and care greatly about each others enjoyment. If you can receive pleasure through ensuring your partner is happy there will be no effort involved in achieving a healthy, active sex life. Through the fulfilling of their desire is the satisfying of your own. When your purpose is to give as much pleasure as you can to each other there is no limit to how amazing, healthy and active your sex life can be.

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